r/widowers
A place for anyone who has lost a companion to share and heal. Please see below for helpful posts, related subreddits and community…
How to think about r/widowers
This community serves as a supportive space for individuals who have lost a partner, providing a platform for sharing experiences and healing. Members often discuss their grief, coping mechanisms, and the challenges of moving forward after loss. The focus on emotional support and understanding distinguishes this community, making it a vital resource for those navigating the complexities of bereavement.
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Audience
Participants in this community are primarily adults who have experienced the loss of a significant other, often seeking solace and connection with others who understand their pain. The vibe is generally empathetic and reflective, with members sharing personal stories and advice. Many are looking for ways to cope with their grief and rebuild their lives, fostering a sense of camaraderie and mutual support.
Posting culture
Content that resonates well includes personal anecdotes, questions about coping strategies, and discussions about the grieving process. Posts that come off as insincere or overly promotional tend to receive downvotes. Members appreciate authenticity and vulnerability, so sharing heartfelt experiences is encouraged. The community is active, with regular posts and comments, creating a dynamic environment for ongoing support.
Brand engagement notes
Brands looking to engage with this community should approach with caution, as members are often sensitive to promotional content. Authenticity is key; brands can contribute by sharing resources related to grief support or mental health without overtly selling products. Engaging in discussions that provide value, such as offering expert advice or facilitating conversations around bereavement, can foster goodwill. However, any attempt at direct marketing may be met with resistance.
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What r/widowers talks about
Weighted by how often each term appears in posts and comments, relative to baseline frequency. The largest words are the strongest signals of community focus.
External signals
Where the community looks
Top external domains linked from posts and comments — a quick read on the sources of truth this audience trusts.
Top contributors
Who shapes the conversation
The most active and most-upvoted posters and commenters in this community. Useful when planning outreach or studying a community's tastemakers.
Top posters
By post count
- u/Famous_Property_301
- u/[deleted]
- u/Unhappy_Fly7087
- u/Icy_Plane_890
- u/AQuietBorderline
- u/HughCayrz01
- u/Status-Ad-7705
- u/james_under_village
- u/Mediocre-Kick6997
- u/AkariLeetheMazda3
- u/Bitter_Clerk_5487
- u/YOLV88
- u/southbeachboy
- u/2BLostandLonely
- u/Active_Ad_8972
- u/jbjh516
- u/New_Noise_8141
- u/WeWannaKnow
- u/decaturbob
- u/LOFreePuppiez
- u/Educational_End_7678
- u/Sleepingtides29
- u/has457
- u/Greedy-Bit-2821
- u/Tiny_Phase_1638
- u/Ok-Leopard385
- u/Icarus649
- u/Forsaken-Library-280
- u/CurrencyIndividual95
- u/ArghDammit
- u/until_twilight
- u/sodiumbigolli
- u/tomiluvslib
- u/femmerobot
- u/thecoolcollective
- u/emmanjayy
- u/mirandaahkay
- u/Samikaze707
- u/Pleasant_Winner_3965
- u/TopFlamingo25
- u/ForsythCounty
- u/Happy-Fact4071
- u/Most_Fig6018
- u/Fabulous_Ordinary_53
- u/No_Practice8942
- u/fullmetalasian
- u/HumpieDouglas
- u/nope-its-def-not-me
- u/DamianFoxx
- u/metaljane666
- u/Situation_Maleficent
- u/joshmmmmmm
- u/hidjay
- u/hightoarecord
- u/OfUnknownOrigin77
- u/PirateJohn75
- u/TheOriginalVixen
- u/Fun-Investigator-914
- u/Problem_Numerous
- u/Sudden_Goose_1792
- u/LibertarianCunt
- u/Arsenic-Arsenal
- u/bflpf
- u/420EdibleQueen
- u/bewildered_83
- u/phil8248
- u/JayRZ19
- u/gburgoyne
- u/wounded-cactus
- u/spete679
- u/Winger61
- u/Extreme-Spirited
- u/Roo831
- u/Ill_Independence9047
- u/johnnyfiveundead
- u/Serious5
- u/Sadgirllife05
- u/MT092022
- u/Bearbreanna23
- u/termicky
- u/sittingbulloch
- u/EvenWay4669
- u/hikerchickdacey
- u/Substantial_Coast567
- u/MeelR61
- u/chatham739
- u/heartbrokennn123
- u/No_Dragonfly_1894
- u/TurbulentGardens
- u/lydecker285
- u/freckledreddishbrown
- u/himiyamaha
- u/bironran
- u/AwkwardLunchladyHugs
- u/Sad-Violinist-5562
- u/jsow
- u/heyyyyyluvvvvvyaaaaa
- u/claraKK98
- u/madmax1969
- u/New_Platypus_1750
By votes
- u/Famous_Property_301
- u/[deleted]
- u/Unhappy_Fly7087
- u/Status-Ad-7705
- u/Icy_Plane_890
- u/AQuietBorderline
- u/james_under_village
- u/AkariLeetheMazda3
- u/WeWannaKnow
- u/ArghDammit
- u/HughCayrz01
- u/Educational_End_7678
- u/Mediocre-Kick6997
- u/Bitter_Clerk_5487
- u/New_Noise_8141
- u/2BLostandLonely
- u/phil8248
- u/sodiumbigolli
- u/No_Practice8942
- u/southbeachboy
- u/until_twilight
- u/MetalAvenger
- u/YOLV88
- u/tomiluvslib
- u/Tiny_Phase_1638
- u/Ok-Leopard385
- u/JayRZ19
- u/thecoolcollective
- u/spete679
- u/femmerobot
- u/decaturbob
- u/LOFreePuppiez
- u/jbjh516
- u/nope-its-def-not-me
- u/emmanjayy
- u/fullmetalasian
- u/gburgoyne
- u/TheOriginalVixen
- u/ForsythCounty
- u/Ill_Independence9047
- u/metaljane666
- u/Sleepingtides29
- u/wounded-cactus
- u/DamianFoxx
- u/has457
- u/EvenWay4669
- u/MT092022
- u/joshmmmmmm
- u/OfUnknownOrigin77
- u/Serious5
- u/sittingbulloch
- u/mirandaahkay
- u/Extreme-Spirited
- u/Samikaze707
- u/noradninja
- u/Problem_Numerous
- u/Substantial_Coast567
- u/HumpieDouglas
- u/DavisTasar
- u/PirateJohn75
- u/hightoarecord
- u/Bearbreanna23
- u/heartbrokennn123
- u/Active_Ad_8972
- u/freckledreddishbrown
- u/Philly_Special_127
- u/Winger61
- u/hidjay
- u/klombieX2
- u/himiyamaha
- u/DennisPikePhoto
- u/Most_Fig6018
- u/No_Dragonfly_1894
- u/lydecker285
- u/hikerchickdacey
- u/Roo831
- u/horses_for_courses
- u/KhalWolf
- u/johnnyfiveundead
- u/kam49ers4ever
- u/bironran
- u/AwkwardLunchladyHugs
- u/Situation_Maleficent
- u/TurbulentGardens
- u/Sad-Violinist-5562
- u/jsow
- u/Forsaken-Library-280
- u/Dejahm79
- u/Happy-Fact4071
- u/sgomezfeet
- u/claraKK98
- u/puzzelinthework
- u/TopFlamingo25
- u/bflpf
- u/Nadezhda-Markovna
- u/MeelR61
- u/heyyyyyluvvvvvyaaaaa
- u/Substantial_Poem_233
- u/chatham739
- u/Sadgirllife05
Top commenters
By comment count
- u/[deleted]
- u/GlitteringCommunity1
- u/No_Dragonfly_1894
- u/CaptJellico
- u/decaturbob
- u/NipsOfRage
- u/Square_Sink7318
- u/Key_Potential1724
- u/KenJen8
- u/Myobsession111
- u/Just_Lori
- u/Mediocre-Kick6997
- u/fullmetalasian
- u/kygrandma
- u/irishspice
- u/The_bookworm65
- u/ProfessionalDesk2363
- u/mollysheridan
- u/Minnow_Cakewalk
- u/FlamingoMN
- u/Cuddldog
- u/Jayson_Bonz
- u/psiprez
- u/Evening_Advisor3154
- u/puzzelinthework
- u/Mundane_Finding2697
- u/Suitable-Mode-9344
- u/Oldoneeyeisback
- u/Halt96
- u/SovietRobot
- u/SunnyMaineBerry
- u/watch-the-donut
- u/MarkINWguy
- u/awright0921
- u/MaineBoston
- u/copper_tulip
- u/Lhyight
- u/SomethingElseSpecial
- u/Cre8ivejoy
- u/Alljazz527
- u/ImARighteousGemstone
- u/AQuietBorderline
- u/Suppose2Bubble
- u/Rodeocowboy123abc
- u/WaitForItttt_IV
- u/Zmeander
- u/ginskia
- u/KaptainObvious28
- u/throwngamelastminute
- u/metaljane666
- u/YOLV88
- u/chatham739
- u/hidjay
- u/MeelR61
- u/Littlelyon3843
- u/SoCalNightOwl
- u/Gaia0416
- u/james_under_village
- u/twink1813
- u/darkchocolatecoconut
- u/Just_A_Dogsbody
- u/basic_disneyprincess
- u/Cwilde7
- u/Intraluminal
- u/Adept_Mulberry_
- u/AccomplishedAd3200
- u/MeMeMeOnly
- u/gburgoyne
- u/jcontact
- u/Konshu456
- u/KattyKai
- u/charleen31272
- u/Curias_1
- u/PanickedPoodle
- u/koolchicken
- u/ORdAVen
- u/CatMama67
- u/Reddituser853754
- u/RadSec71
- u/jessdfrench
- u/spencer103093
- u/damageddude
- u/Ecstatic-Youth-4306
- u/spbcnt
- u/Nearby_Dragonfruit58
- u/Tiny_Emotion_2628
- u/Fazaman
- u/dahorseyguy1968
- u/Fair_Macaron761
- u/redhotbos
- u/Status-Ad-7705
- u/Famous_Property_301
- u/bluewarden13
- u/redlloyd
- u/BerryLanky
- u/lithelanna
- u/DanBradley1970
- u/masha1901
- u/IAreAEngineer
- u/Celestialnavigator35
By votes
- u/[deleted]
- u/DavisTasar
- u/damienbarrett
- u/MarsEcho
- u/Square_Sink7318
- u/greginvalley
- u/WeirdTemperature7
- u/ProfessionalDesk2363
- u/HumpieDouglas
- u/ImARighteousGemstone
- u/DennisPikePhoto
- u/Ellec565
- u/softbreeeze
- u/CaptJellico
- u/WaitForItttt_IV
- u/legend462
- u/Just_A_Dogsbody
- u/brainxxchild
- u/PanickedPoodle
- u/JenaboH
- u/Jayson_Bonz
- u/GlitteringCommunity1
- u/big_d_usernametaken
- u/FullyFunctional3086
- u/NipsOfRage
- u/kygrandma
- u/irishspice
- u/KattyKai
- u/No_Dragonfly_1894
- u/Mysterious-Plenty-41
- u/buttholesarepockets
- u/Halt96
- u/Sadsloth_
- u/redhotbos
- u/Minnow_Cakewalk
- u/AQuietBorderline
- u/metaljane666
- u/uglyanddumbguy
- u/copper_tulip
- u/New_Noise_8141
- u/Intraluminal
- u/Dee1je
- u/fullmetalasian
- u/SoCalNightOwl
- u/Sad-Advertising-3996
- u/puzzelinthework
- u/Mediocre-Kick6997
- u/lets_chill_dude
- u/L1cker1sh
- u/GinWithoutTonic54322
- u/Suppose2Bubble
- u/gburgoyne
- u/MarkINWguy
- u/Ygtron
- u/ariariariarii
- u/watch-the-donut
- u/ArghDammit
- u/toothpastespiders
- u/Margatron
- u/abbeygailmackenzie
- u/Anitame
- u/dessertandcheese
- u/laylack
- u/ugglygirl
- u/NumerousArt1
- u/The_bookworm65
- u/jessdfrench
- u/awright0921
- u/hollymost
- u/psiprez
- u/BlueSnail34
- u/Wienerwrld
- u/MeelR61
- u/sw714
- u/SunnyMaineBerry
- u/Alljazz527
- u/B-Large1
- u/veralynnwildfire
- u/Tricky-House9431
- u/single_malt_jedi
- u/sickitatedatyou
- u/Konshu456
- u/KaptainObvious28
- u/zippyboy
- u/MeMeMeOnly
- u/maplebench322416
- u/spbcnt
- u/Important-Major5698
- u/mollysheridan
- u/FlamingoMN
- u/aapaul
- u/Xsad_but_cuteX
- u/MuBo123
- u/bluewarden13
- u/BerryLanky
- u/Happy-Fact4071
- u/bopperbopper
- u/StarryPenny
- u/IAreAEngineer
- u/Ooroo2
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FAQ
r/widowers — frequently asked questions
Quick facts about this subreddit's size, history, focus, and related communities.
How many subscribers does r/widowers have?
r/widowers has approximately 40,592 subscribers as of May 27, 2026.
When was r/widowers created?
r/widowers was created on September 26, 2011 (15 years ago).
What is r/widowers about?
This community serves as a supportive space for individuals who have lost a partner, providing a platform for sharing experiences and healing. Members often discuss their grief, coping mechanisms, and the challenges of moving forward after loss. The focus on emotional support and understanding distinguishes this community, making it a vital resource for those navigating the …
What subreddits are similar to r/widowers?
Communities similar to r/widowers include r/datingoverfifty, r/grief, r/mediumreadings, r/caregiversupport.
Who are the most active posters on r/widowers?
The most frequent posters on r/widowers include u/Famous_Property_301, u/[deleted], u/Unhappy_Fly7087.
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