r/relationshipsover35
RelationshipsOver35 is a place for over 30 adults to discuss their relationships,friendships, and families with other over 30 adults…
How to think about r/relationshipsover35
This community is dedicated to adults over 30 who seek to discuss various aspects of their relationships, friendships, and family dynamics. It provides a supportive environment for members to share experiences, seek advice, and explore the complexities of relationships at a more mature stage in life. The focus on real-life experiences and challenges faced by this age group sets it apart from other relationship forums.
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Audience
Members typically include individuals aged 30 and older, often navigating significant life transitions such as marriage, divorce, or parenting. The community attracts a diverse demographic, including singles, couples, and those seeking friendship. Participants value authenticity, emotional support, and practical advice, fostering a respectful and understanding vibe.
Posting culture
Content that thrives includes personal anecdotes, requests for advice, and discussions about relationship challenges. Members appreciate thoughtful, well-articulated posts that invite genuine interaction. Posts that come off as overly promotional or insincere are likely to be downvoted. The community encourages regular engagement, with members often sharing updates or follow-ups on previous discussions.
Brand engagement notes
Brands should approach this community with caution, as members are generally skeptical of overt marketing and promotional content. Authentic engagement, such as sharing valuable insights or facilitating discussions on relationship topics, can resonate well. Brands might consider sponsoring AMAs or providing expert advice in a non-promotional manner. However, direct advertising or self-promotion is likely to be met with hostility, so subtlety is key.
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What r/relationshipsover35 talks about
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Top contributors
Who shapes the conversation
The most active and most-upvoted posters and commenters in this community. Useful when planning outreach or studying a community's tastemakers.
Top posters
By post count
- u/[deleted]
- u/Larry-Man
- u/ThinAd1511
- u/ImpossibleBit8346
- u/NoMoreCAMJV
- u/meandmy4cats
- u/HeyHeyFAThrowaway
- u/sahw2015
- u/TAsdfgcxv1254
- u/Odd_ball321
- u/discobananana
- u/Revolutionary-Lab830
- u/TerribleInvite
- u/OkAdministration3529
- u/Stories_to_remember
- u/chroma_sparkles
- u/topshelf03
- u/Claret-and-gold
- u/helplessover30
- u/inquieta
- u/ToodleOodleoooo
- u/nadnurul
- u/PM_ME_UR_INSIGHTS
- u/ThrowRAsnickerdoodle
- u/robocoprobochicken
- u/Sweetbug33
- u/ThrowRA_wtfdude
- u/rosadonnaslayz
- u/Fabulous-Internal761
- u/p5yk0t1km1r4ge
- u/ParsleyPhysical6937
- u/LividChef7333
- u/pppatriciaxx
- u/Hot-Technician5710
- u/anywhere_and_nowhere
- u/Working_Bottle_6423
- u/OnMyBoat
- u/drewtonark
- u/apocawhat
- u/exvangeline
- u/Ghosts-do-shimmer
- u/lots-of-quests
- u/Digfast284
- u/Magical_Crabical
- u/MamaDiaz_STL
- u/Sea-Locksmith8120
- u/oceanrainbows
- u/Feistyfifi
- u/4xlfirefly
- u/Relative_Security_20
- u/pdawes
- u/xkoffinkatx
- u/Motor-Farm6610
- u/Majestic-Sun-937
- u/TobylovesPam
- u/crayzcatlayde
- u/buckeyegurloh
- u/unknown202009
- u/Aware_Preparation799
- u/Mad_about_mayhem
- u/MyFifthSecretAcct
- u/EditorialMonkey
- u/kendall-mintcake
- u/ItsAllABitShirt
- u/No-Rule-1136
- u/ThrowRA777la
- u/twicescorned21
- u/Kolya19
- u/s_wagz0987
- u/PostHardcoreSadBoi
- u/zzoysite
- u/HotStuff562
- u/Human-Dingo-6884
- u/bluffinwith_mymuffin
- u/grandtheftfruiting
- u/FilthyFuckingApe
- u/Kalidanoscope
- u/Jjj20288
- u/OkCoyote6888
- u/RadioFreeMoscow
- u/von-courtenstein
- u/antonwantsitbad
- u/ThrowRA_101023
- u/CadenceLuthien
- u/cantbothersigh
- u/turingsTorment
- u/SpinachOk3979
- u/sincefeeling
- u/Humble-Hawk-1768
- u/Hellosl
- u/Angisong2292
- u/Noodles1171
- u/kelkivo
- u/Extreme_Intention_
- u/whatmumdidnext
- u/Angry_Girlfriend_22
- u/SufficientOil4682
- u/Standard-Wonder-523
- u/Upbeat_Sherbert7026
- u/Fuzzy_Cheesecake_668
By votes
- u/[deleted]
- u/Larry-Man
- u/discobananana
- u/NoMoreCAMJV
- u/ThinAd1511
- u/Hot-Technician5710
- u/anywhere_and_nowhere
- u/Revolutionary-Lab830
- u/Working_Bottle_6423
- u/OnMyBoat
- u/HeyHeyFAThrowaway
- u/Stories_to_remember
- u/topshelf03
- u/meandmy4cats
- u/drewtonark
- u/apocawhat
- u/exvangeline
- u/OkAdministration3529
- u/Ghosts-do-shimmer
- u/lots-of-quests
- u/Digfast284
- u/helplessover30
- u/PM_ME_UR_INSIGHTS
- u/nadnurul
- u/MamaDiaz_STL
- u/Sea-Locksmith8120
- u/Claret-and-gold
- u/TerribleInvite
- u/ToodleOodleoooo
- u/Magical_Crabical
- u/oceanrainbows
- u/4xlfirefly
- u/Feistyfifi
- u/Relative_Security_20
- u/pdawes
- u/Majestic-Sun-937
- u/chroma_sparkles
- u/xkoffinkatx
- u/TobylovesPam
- u/unknown202009
- u/MyFifthSecretAcct
- u/Motor-Farm6610
- u/crayzcatlayde
- u/Aware_Preparation799
- u/ImpossibleBit8346
- u/kendall-mintcake
- u/No-Rule-1136
- u/buckeyegurloh
- u/Mad_about_mayhem
- u/ItsAllABitShirt
- u/ThrowRA777la
- u/PostHardcoreSadBoi
- u/EditorialMonkey
- u/s_wagz0987
- u/Kolya19
- u/HotStuff562
- u/von-courtenstein
- u/zzoysite
- u/bluffinwith_mymuffin
- u/OkCoyote6888
- u/RadioFreeMoscow
- u/twicescorned21
- u/Human-Dingo-6884
- u/FilthyFuckingApe
- u/CadenceLuthien
- u/cantbothersigh
- u/grandtheftfruiting
- u/Kalidanoscope
- u/SpinachOk3979
- u/sahw2015
- u/Jjj20288
- u/inquieta
- u/turingsTorment
- u/sincefeeling
- u/ThrowRAsnickerdoodle
- u/Extreme_Intention_
- u/Upbeat_Sherbert7026
- u/robocoprobochicken
- u/antonwantsitbad
- u/Hellosl
- u/Angisong2292
- u/Noodles1171
- u/kelkivo
- u/ThrowRA_101023
- u/Humble-Hawk-1768
- u/Angry_Girlfriend_22
- u/Sweetbug33
- u/whatmumdidnext
- u/SufficientOil4682
- u/Path-Active
- u/NoFrosting686
- u/HowisyourFridaybrah
- u/chrono2310
- u/Standard-Wonder-523
- u/Fuzzy_Cheesecake_668
- u/Perfect-Stranger590
- u/pixie8440
- u/Prestigious-Distance
- u/throwaway_hyundai12
- u/Lastmmagirl
Top commenters
By comment count
- u/[deleted]
- u/Chazzyphant
- u/--2021--
- u/Unlikely_Ad_1692
- u/FarCar55
- u/Spoonbills
- u/hammong
- u/tfresca
- u/Sarsmi
- u/call-me-mama-t
- u/aenea
- u/unite-thegig-economy
- u/pmabz
- u/anapforme
- u/Elorie
- u/ScreenPrintWalrus
- u/boldbees
- u/Mtnskydancer
- u/ThenIJizzedInMyPants
- u/Suki100
- u/Individual_Baby_2418
- u/bigyouth
- u/RedditSkippy
- u/gscrap
- u/phonafriend
- u/AdministrationFun626
- u/mad0666
- u/contactdeparture
- u/Kaethy77
- u/Hnylamb
- u/moviesandcats
- u/the_gato_says
- u/SrNetworkEngineer
- u/FactCheckYou
- u/NotSoSmartChick
- u/Tenaciousgreen
- u/Here_for_tea_
- u/endlesspassport
- u/AotKT
- u/-WhiteOleander
- u/Floopoo32
- u/akaghi
- u/twicescorned21
- u/ProfJD58
- u/ImpossibleBit8346
- u/Scapular_Fin
- u/Chronotaru
- u/Fragrant_Example_918
- u/boogermeboogeru
- u/FriedaKilligan
- u/GavUK
- u/kiwispouse
- u/HedgeRunner
- u/cyanocobalamin
- u/jdsunny46
- u/JohnnyMnemo
- u/rodeopete3281
- u/spoink74
- u/lemetellyousomething
- u/RMN1999_V2
- u/meatbeater
- u/antons83
- u/Mollzor
- u/PearofGenes
- u/ThatCarpetTowel05
- u/fsgirl1
- u/-becausereasons-
- u/searedscallops
- u/Riversntallbuildings
- u/Happierbutwiser
- u/printerparty
- u/mandella1uk
- u/makeshift__empress
- u/ningyna
- u/boxer_dogs_dance
- u/grimetime01
- u/avocadotoastallday
- u/moosemc
- u/MamaDiaz_STL
- u/ortofon88
- u/liz_rocks
- u/New2Poly2020
- u/KhaoticPrime
- u/PallorGreatful
- u/drumadarragh
- u/HappyDaysayin
- u/OrcOfDoom
- u/BelleDreamCatcher
- u/RHOBHtea
- u/earthgarden
- u/mmmmmarty
- u/Miss_Might
- u/jaelythe4781
- u/happy_panda87
- u/bluetortuga
- u/elephantlove14
- u/ItBeMe_For_Real
- u/bailme
- u/nadnurul
- u/Smiling_Tree
By votes
- u/[deleted]
- u/FarCar55
- u/moviesandcats
- u/sevenlabors
- u/NakedStreets
- u/unite-thegig-economy
- u/aenea
- u/Kaethy77
- u/boldbees
- u/Sarsmi
- u/searedscallops
- u/anapforme
- u/Capable_Natural_9918
- u/watchmeroam
- u/makeshift__empress
- u/contactdeparture
- u/fightmaxmaster
- u/Spoonbills
- u/WishBear19
- u/fireflygirl1013
- u/RedditSkippy
- u/kiwispouse
- u/-WhiteOleander
- u/gscrap
- u/Peeedorrrfff
- u/Exotic-One3381
- u/Aquifel
- u/Chazzyphant
- u/AotKT
- u/oh-no-varies
- u/cathkyth1
- u/betternottell72
- u/fables_of_faubus
- u/Individual_Baby_2418
- u/SrNetworkEngineer
- u/PM-me-ur-kittenz
- u/h20falz
- u/FuzzyTidBits
- u/Spartan2022
- u/Individual_Wallaby25
- u/TheRadiantTruth
- u/cyanocobalamin
- u/AliceInBondageLand
- u/jdsunny46
- u/--2021--
- u/SqueakyBall
- u/No-Category832
- u/PirateKilt
- u/the_gato_says
- u/call-me-mama-t
- u/phonafriend
- u/PearofGenes
- u/moxipls
- u/endlesspassport
- u/_dangling_participle
- u/HappinessSuitsYou
- u/CinnamonJ
- u/meatbeater
- u/Happierbutwiser
- u/bigyouth
- u/Elorie
- u/KittyShittyBangBang
- u/Topcity36
- u/Mrstrawberry209
- u/mrva
- u/ZorroMcChucknorris
- u/Ok-Post-1863
- u/sassydomino
- u/Unlikely_Ad_1692
- u/lady_modesty
- u/M3mph
- u/Hnylamb
- u/Mtnskydancer
- u/bd31
- u/giveuptheghostbuster
- u/cuginhamer
- u/Miserable_Air8321
- u/OrcOfDoom
- u/ItBeMe_For_Real
- u/lou_parr
- u/eastwardarts
- u/Mollzor
- u/Scapular_Fin
- u/FriedaKilligan
- u/tannieth
- u/lemetellyousomething
- u/Possumpipesup
- u/ThenIJizzedInMyPants
- u/NotSoSmartChick
- u/Floopoo32
- u/twicescorned21
- u/seacookie89
- u/grimetime01
- u/DelinquentAdult
- u/queerbychoice
- u/paws3588
- u/coreythestar
- u/LifeMorning2481
- u/MidnightLark33
- u/spoink74
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FAQ
r/relationshipsover35 — frequently asked questions
Quick facts about this subreddit's size, history, focus, and related communities.
How many subscribers does r/relationshipsover35 have?
r/relationshipsover35 has approximately 30,923 subscribers as of May 27, 2026.
When was r/relationshipsover35 created?
r/relationshipsover35 was created on February 6, 2018 (8 years ago).
What is r/relationshipsover35 about?
This community is dedicated to adults over 30 who seek to discuss various aspects of their relationships, friendships, and family dynamics. It provides a supportive environment for members to share experiences, seek advice, and explore the complexities of relationships at a more mature stage in life. The focus on real-life experiences and challenges faced by this age group s…
What subreddits are similar to r/relationshipsover35?
Communities similar to r/relationshipsover35 include r/datingoverfifty, r/friendsover40, r/askwomenover40, r/askoldpeople, r/askoldpeopleadvice.
Who are the most active posters on r/relationshipsover35?
The most frequent posters on r/relationshipsover35 include u/[deleted], u/Larry-Man, u/ThinAd1511.
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