r/lostafriend
Support during the end of a friendship - a good friend walks out of your life, they made you upset, etc. Feel free to talk about how your…
How to think about r/lostafriend
The community provides a supportive space for individuals grappling with the emotional aftermath of friendship loss. Members share personal experiences, seek advice, and offer comfort to one another, creating a collective understanding of the pain associated with ending friendships. The focus is on healing and reflection, making it distinct from other relationship-focused forums that may not address friendship specifically.
Confidence 4/5
Audience
Participants are typically young adults and teens who are navigating the complexities of friendships, often during pivotal life stages such as college or early adulthood. The vibe is empathetic and supportive, with members seeking validation and understanding for their feelings of loss, guilt, or confusion regarding their friendships.
Posting culture
Content that resonates includes personal stories of friendship loss, requests for advice, and reflections on healing. Posts that are overly promotional or lack genuine emotion tend to be downvoted. Members frequently engage with one another, fostering a sense of community, and posts are often made in response to recent experiences, creating a steady flow of new content.
Brand engagement notes
Brands should approach this community with caution, as members are generally resistant to overt promotion or marketing tactics. Authentic engagement, such as sharing relatable content or resources about friendship and emotional well-being, can resonate well. Brands might consider sponsoring helpful discussions or providing tools for emotional support, but should avoid direct advertising or self-promotion to maintain credibility and respect within the community.
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What r/lostafriend talks about
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Where the community looks
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Top contributors
Who shapes the conversation
The most active and most-upvoted posters and commenters in this community. Useful when planning outreach or studying a community's tastemakers.
Top posters
By post count
- u/crashboxer1678
- u/dah_Deadly_Ace
- u/No_Candy3578
- u/YakuZaishiThrowaway
- u/AutoModerator
- u/Various-Sky-1026
- u/[deleted]
- u/Responsible-Pilot-78
- u/beeatricehorseman
- u/helpppppppppppppi
- u/Hekateras
- u/BrilliantNResilient
- u/Fairygirl1001
- u/Fabulous-Pace-7129
- u/Due-Ad-4218
- u/weird_robot_
- u/DisastrousHat5328
- u/Quietpoet3
- u/Euphoric-Music662
- u/AlyssaMenutti
- u/Temporary-Plan-7987
- u/cantdoittwice
- u/Whyuhavetobesocute
- u/CynicalSc0rpi0
- u/FandomNerd126
- u/thedrmoonlight
- u/Ok-Needleworker3170
- u/undiagnoseddude
- u/xsetsun
- u/amvicious1_
- u/P5M-3Y6X2B-EJ4T58-NF
- u/xxSatinsomepeachesxx
- u/King_Gingell58
- u/viceversa220
- u/kairi240
- u/HappinessIsWarm
- u/jimineycrick
- u/Morphyhammer
- u/Scottish_Swimmer
- u/Evil_SugarCookie
- u/noOne000Br
- u/candy_and_whiskey
- u/awaywiththisflower
- u/plantuniverse
- u/Nanaki890
- u/httk13
- u/Franky87069
- u/Odovacarravenus
- u/trailmixgirll
- u/anatomical-ghost
- u/OneInvestigator2666
- u/lgonder
- u/00bxnny00
- u/Holdinonto_me
- u/shrimp-scampi69
- u/throwaway20221231
- u/Akasuraota
- u/CutGlittering4542
- u/slippytoad37
- u/Euphoric_Start_595
- u/FlashVirus
- u/Intelligent_List536
- u/Tren_baloni_sandwich
- u/Appropriate_Alarm993
- u/shamrocksarecool
- u/StressBuster2000
- u/LongjumpingAd6407
- u/D4mm1tM3g
- u/etapisciumm
- u/Iamadangerouschair
- u/sectumsemprae
- u/RonWeasleyLookingAss
- u/Practical_Bullfrog36
- u/NickolaBrinx
- u/Accomplished-Dot-104
- u/Representative_Leg29
- u/Ok_Neighborhood_1535
- u/SearchFluffy8369
- u/_Owlkeys_
- u/SecretLoner-815
- u/MountainExcitement37
- u/PuzzleheadedLack1040
- u/SHE911
- u/DejanMomo
- u/Skyeawolfe
- u/West-Garage-9650
- u/ChemicalOperation930
- u/ChengZX
- u/fuckitvicky
- u/ThrowRA_lotionx
- u/augustsippedaway777
- u/Diligent-Way-4759
- u/magdakitsune21
- u/tryingmybest71
- u/crypticshit101
- u/Intelligent-League86
- u/Lemontreechocolatte
- u/Trencher4ever90
- u/CLeverywhere
By votes
- u/crashboxer1678
- u/dah_Deadly_Ace
- u/YakuZaishiThrowaway
- u/beeatricehorseman
- u/Various-Sky-1026
- u/Hekateras
- u/AlyssaMenutti
- u/[deleted]
- u/Euphoric-Music662
- u/Temporary-Plan-7987
- u/Whyuhavetobesocute
- u/AutoModerator
- u/cantdoittwice
- u/BrilliantNResilient
- u/Responsible-Pilot-78
- u/CynicalSc0rpi0
- u/thedrmoonlight
- u/Ok-Needleworker3170
- u/Fairygirl1001
- u/Fabulous-Pace-7129
- u/xxSatinsomepeachesxx
- u/King_Gingell58
- u/No_Candy3578
- u/FandomNerd126
- u/undiagnoseddude
- u/xsetsun
- u/P5M-3Y6X2B-EJ4T58-NF
- u/viceversa220
- u/kairi240
- u/HappinessIsWarm
- u/Morphyhammer
- u/Nanaki890
- u/Due-Ad-4218
- u/amvicious1_
- u/jimineycrick
- u/Scottish_Swimmer
- u/awaywiththisflower
- u/plantuniverse
- u/OneInvestigator2666
- u/weird_robot_
- u/DisastrousHat5328
- u/Evil_SugarCookie
- u/noOne000Br
- u/candy_and_whiskey
- u/httk13
- u/Odovacarravenus
- u/anatomical-ghost
- u/lgonder
- u/00bxnny00
- u/shrimp-scampi69
- u/CutGlittering4542
- u/Appropriate_Alarm993
- u/helpppppppppppppi
- u/Quietpoet3
- u/Franky87069
- u/trailmixgirll
- u/Holdinonto_me
- u/throwaway20221231
- u/Euphoric_Start_595
- u/FlashVirus
- u/Intelligent_List536
- u/Tren_baloni_sandwich
- u/Akasuraota
- u/slippytoad37
- u/shamrocksarecool
- u/StressBuster2000
- u/LongjumpingAd6407
- u/D4mm1tM3g
- u/etapisciumm
- u/Iamadangerouschair
- u/sectumsemprae
- u/RonWeasleyLookingAss
- u/Practical_Bullfrog36
- u/NickolaBrinx
- u/Accomplished-Dot-104
- u/Representative_Leg29
- u/Ok_Neighborhood_1535
- u/SearchFluffy8369
- u/_Owlkeys_
- u/SecretLoner-815
- u/MountainExcitement37
- u/PuzzleheadedLack1040
- u/SHE911
- u/DejanMomo
- u/Skyeawolfe
- u/West-Garage-9650
- u/ChemicalOperation930
- u/ChengZX
- u/fuckitvicky
- u/ThrowRA_lotionx
- u/augustsippedaway777
- u/Diligent-Way-4759
- u/magdakitsune21
- u/tryingmybest71
- u/crypticshit101
- u/Intelligent-League86
- u/Lemontreechocolatte
- u/Trencher4ever90
- u/CLeverywhere
Top commenters
By comment count
- u/crashboxer1678
- u/weird_robot_
- u/Hekateras
- u/hotmasalachai
- u/[deleted]
- u/bkj512
- u/Princessofcandyland1
- u/No-Western-7755
- u/BologaOriginal
- u/FandomNerd126
- u/calathea-pilea
- u/FlashVirus
- u/Akasuraota
- u/trailmixgirll
- u/SolarLunix_
- u/washgirl7980
- u/jimineycrick
- u/undiagnoseddude
- u/Euphoric-Music662
- u/Various-Sky-1026
- u/beeatricehorseman
- u/AF_AF
- u/Comfortable-Owl-5929
- u/Reader288
- u/Spazzy_maker
- u/shamrocksarecool
- u/Fabulous-Pace-7129
- u/Small_Economist4891
- u/ChengZX
- u/Crystalz-Ballz74
- u/hopelessromantic311
- u/vbob99
- u/SnooApples661
- u/candy_and_whiskey
- u/helpppppppppppppi
- u/xoldsteel
- u/tabookduo
- u/gessabean
- u/darya42
- u/Salty_Ad_4578
- u/cantdoittwice
- u/Sexyboy4you1984
- u/Realistic_Dust5442
- u/Spiritual_Ask_7336
- u/Background_Lynx_3184
- u/Major-Macaron
- u/AdministrativeArm773
- u/Lifelacksluster
- u/kittywhiskers1716
- u/AlyssaMenutti
- u/antiromance
- u/PresentationFast7913
- u/ando1135
- u/Cultural_Ad6180
- u/CODDE117
By votes
- u/crashboxer1678
- u/hotmasalachai
- u/weird_robot_
- u/Princessofcandyland1
- u/Background_Lynx_3184
- u/BologaOriginal
- u/bkj512
- u/calathea-pilea
- u/Hekateras
- u/beeatricehorseman
- u/candy_and_whiskey
- u/No-Western-7755
- u/Small_Economist4891
- u/hopelessromantic311
- u/vbob99
- u/FandomNerd126
- u/Major-Macaron
- u/AdministrativeArm773
- u/Akasuraota
- u/Crystalz-Ballz74
- u/gessabean
- u/Realistic_Dust5442
- u/Lifelacksluster
- u/kittywhiskers1716
- u/AlyssaMenutti
- u/FlashVirus
- u/trailmixgirll
- u/SolarLunix_
- u/washgirl7980
- u/jimineycrick
- u/[deleted]
- u/Euphoric-Music662
- u/AF_AF
- u/Comfortable-Owl-5929
- u/Reader288
- u/Spazzy_maker
- u/shamrocksarecool
- u/ChengZX
- u/xoldsteel
- u/darya42
- u/cantdoittwice
- u/antiromance
- u/ando1135
- u/CODDE117
- u/undiagnoseddude
- u/Various-Sky-1026
- u/Fabulous-Pace-7129
- u/SnooApples661
- u/helpppppppppppppi
- u/tabookduo
- u/Salty_Ad_4578
- u/Sexyboy4you1984
- u/Spiritual_Ask_7336
- u/PresentationFast7913
- u/Cultural_Ad6180
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FAQ
r/lostafriend — frequently asked questions
Quick facts about this subreddit's size, history, focus, and related communities.
How many subscribers does r/lostafriend have?
r/lostafriend has approximately 28,376 subscribers as of May 27, 2026.
When was r/lostafriend created?
r/lostafriend was created on June 17, 2020 (6 years ago).
What is r/lostafriend about?
The community provides a supportive space for individuals grappling with the emotional aftermath of friendship loss. Members share personal experiences, seek advice, and offer comfort to one another, creating a collective understanding of the pain associated with ending friendships. The focus is on healing and reflection, making it distinct from other relationship-focused fo…
What subreddits are similar to r/lostafriend?
Communities similar to r/lostafriend include r/friendshipadvice, r/nocontact.
Who are the most active posters on r/lostafriend?
The most frequent posters on r/lostafriend include u/crashboxer1678, u/dah_Deadly_Ace, u/No_Candy3578.
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