r/gentleman
Welcome to r/gentleman. A sub dedicated to all things gentlemanly. Here we talk about etiquette, clothing, lifestyle, and more. Feel free…
How to think about r/gentleman
The community is dedicated to exploring and promoting the principles of gentlemanly behavior, focusing on topics such as etiquette, fashion, and lifestyle choices. Members share advice, personal experiences, and discussions that revolve around what it means to embody gentlemanly qualities. The emphasis on politeness and respectful criticism sets this community apart, creating a space where traditional values meet modern interpretations.
Confidence 4/5
Audience
Participants in this community are typically men interested in self-improvement, fashion, and social etiquette. The demographic skews towards younger adults, often in their 20s and 30s, who are keen on cultivating a refined personal style and behavior. The vibe is generally supportive, with members valuing thoughtful discussions and constructive feedback on gentlemanly practices.
Posting culture
Content that thrives includes personal style showcases, etiquette tips, and discussions about lifestyle choices that align with gentlemanly ideals. Posts that are overly promotional or lack substance tend to receive downvotes. Members are encouraged to engage respectfully, and the community appreciates well-crafted posts that invite discussion rather than mere self-promotion. Posting frequency varies, with active discussions often occurring around trending topics in fashion and lifestyle.
Brand engagement notes
Brands should approach this community with caution, as members are often skeptical of overt promotions. Authentic engagement through sharing valuable content, such as style guides or etiquette tips, can resonate well. Collaborations with community members or featuring user-generated content may also be effective. However, brands should avoid direct advertising and instead focus on building relationships by contributing to discussions and providing insights that align with the community's values.
Top keywords
What r/gentleman talks about
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External signals
Where the community looks
Top external domains linked from posts and comments — a quick read on the sources of truth this audience trusts.
Top contributors
Who shapes the conversation
The most active and most-upvoted posters and commenters in this community. Useful when planning outreach or studying a community's tastemakers.
Top posters
By post count
- u/realsuitboi
- u/dummy_thicc_mistake
- u/Alexandre-Ardizzoia
- u/Fulgore_Pa
- u/Slicingspeedzone
- u/Timely-Offer9632
- u/[deleted]
- u/Big__________
- u/Mysterious_Storm_493
- u/OregonCowpoke
- u/Eresiete
- u/Used_Shape_4096
- u/TheLazyPinguin
- u/Crazygrillguy
- u/lxkefox
- u/RennanVillar
- u/Skautcz
- u/Super-Ad1297
- u/muh_whatever
- u/amabucok
- u/BigAdhesiveness5960
- u/Gralenis
- u/wannahelpyousell
- u/prokeshino
- u/Bigmoose93
- u/Brownsugrcane
- u/tradingplumba
- u/Wylesco
- u/LordLakja
- u/Sir_LDavid
- u/MaxEin
- u/LMBYMG
- u/TheWesternGunfighter
- u/tradingfanat
- u/LukeATrillionaire
- u/NoCommunication7
- u/Ornery-City9003
- u/Chance_Astronomer_26
- u/BloodiStag
- u/What_is_love_orchids
- u/JadedTie7651
- u/ThatLucky_Guy
- u/Christopher_Otto
- u/Wkk09
- u/yeetertrader
- u/Able-Schedule8612
- u/Samsabard
By votes
- u/realsuitboi
- u/dummy_thicc_mistake
- u/Alexandre-Ardizzoia
- u/Fulgore_Pa
- u/Big__________
- u/Mysterious_Storm_493
- u/Timely-Offer9632
- u/Slicingspeedzone
- u/Used_Shape_4096
- u/[deleted]
- u/OregonCowpoke
- u/TheLazyPinguin
- u/Crazygrillguy
- u/lxkefox
- u/RennanVillar
- u/Skautcz
- u/Super-Ad1297
- u/muh_whatever
- u/amabucok
- u/BigAdhesiveness5960
- u/Gralenis
- u/prokeshino
- u/Brownsugrcane
- u/wannahelpyousell
- u/Bigmoose93
- u/Wylesco
- u/tradingplumba
- u/LordLakja
- u/MaxEin
- u/LMBYMG
- u/NoCommunication7
- u/Sir_LDavid
- u/TheWesternGunfighter
- u/tradingfanat
- u/LukeATrillionaire
- u/Ornery-City9003
- u/Eresiete
- u/Chance_Astronomer_26
- u/BloodiStag
- u/What_is_love_orchids
- u/JadedTie7651
- u/ThatLucky_Guy
- u/Christopher_Otto
- u/Wkk09
- u/yeetertrader
- u/Able-Schedule8612
- u/Samsabard
Top commenters
By comment count
- u/realsuitboi
- u/dummy_thicc_mistake
- u/NoCommunication7
- u/[deleted]
- u/Ashton-MD
- u/Slicingspeedzone
- u/Fulgore_Pa
- u/Juan_Machena
- u/Sharpe_fan
- u/alex3494
- u/What_is_love_orchids
- u/TheSubster7
- u/raga_drop
- u/najsmasken123
- u/Woonasty
- u/Saeed40
- u/TaaunWe
- u/Wylesco
- u/Super-Ad1297
- u/Phi87
- u/New_Historian_2004
- u/BoulderCreek_77
- u/Adventurous_Path_534
- u/TA2NJW
- u/Alexandre-Ardizzoia
- u/SlickestIckis
- u/JacobSmith_0001
- u/Fumiken
- u/TheWesternGunfighter
- u/1991markus
- u/Assassins_Echo
- u/Fresh-Meringue-9972
- u/Shockwave9227
- u/AndruchaCS
- u/Spiritual-Size3825
- u/sumguysr
- u/Kenny_254
- u/Demichild1
- u/Ok-Spell7008
- u/Max720z
- u/JasonDKingston
- u/mr_in_beetwen
- u/Jester-24
- u/komodo2010
- u/seattle_shmeattle
- u/Sestdesign
- u/TimRevner
- u/lxkefox
- u/Glittering-Self-6102
- u/Asad-8294
- u/clonetrooperex
- u/Ok-Photo-6302
- u/Patrick_Sponge
- u/Sir_Lucius_
- u/Complex_Sir_7206
- u/Kili-st-xy
- u/DangerDuck86
- u/Mysterious_Storm_493
- u/Batatadoce13
- u/Repulsive-Bother-578
- u/justadamscott
- u/plaingraytees
- u/Bobfahrer1990
- u/my_name_is_C053
- u/Bigmoose93
- u/Dorchadas_TGC
- u/Ceyris_
- u/naked_short
- u/Interesting_Rain_768
- u/jowowey
- u/dandrada968279
- u/wannahelpyousell
- u/thatkidanthony
- u/BarenreiterBear
- u/mareesek
- u/JonSnow4525
- u/clunylaceandrage
- u/Illustrious-Void
- u/WorkAccount401
- u/0rizza0
- u/KoalasAreKuddly
- u/lionheart724
- u/Crazygrillguy
- u/Prudent_Hawk_9661
- u/GustavoShine
- u/dvdztn
- u/JAE512_YouTube
- u/Anon-0011-1001
- u/melancholicmelon1
- u/LordLakja
- u/altux
- u/D4M1
- u/Tilidine
- u/fxanalyst11
- u/hahanawmsayin
- u/yeetertrader
By votes
- u/realsuitboi
- u/Ashton-MD
- u/dummy_thicc_mistake
- u/Slicingspeedzone
- u/NoCommunication7
- u/[deleted]
- u/Fulgore_Pa
- u/Woonasty
- u/TaaunWe
- u/Wylesco
- u/Juan_Machena
- u/TA2NJW
- u/plaingraytees
- u/Sharpe_fan
- u/Max720z
- u/JasonDKingston
- u/raga_drop
- u/Ok-Spell7008
- u/mr_in_beetwen
- u/Alexandre-Ardizzoia
- u/TheSubster7
- u/Saeed40
- u/Super-Ad1297
- u/What_is_love_orchids
- u/JacobSmith_0001
- u/TheWesternGunfighter
- u/1991markus
- u/Assassins_Echo
- u/Shockwave9227
- u/najsmasken123
- u/Jester-24
- u/komodo2010
- u/seattle_shmeattle
- u/BoulderCreek_77
- u/Batatadoce13
- u/justadamscott
- u/alex3494
- u/Bigmoose93
- u/Fumiken
- u/Illustrious-Void
- u/fxanalyst11
- u/hahanawmsayin
- u/Fresh-Meringue-9972
- u/AndruchaCS
- u/Spiritual-Size3825
- u/sumguysr
- u/Kenny_254
- u/Sestdesign
- u/TimRevner
- u/lxkefox
- u/Phi87
- u/New_Historian_2004
- u/Adventurous_Path_534
- u/Ok-Photo-6302
- u/Repulsive-Bother-578
- u/SlickestIckis
- u/Dorchadas_TGC
- u/Ceyris_
- u/naked_short
- u/Interesting_Rain_768
- u/jowowey
- u/mareesek
- u/JonSnow4525
- u/clunylaceandrage
- u/Prudent_Hawk_9661
- u/dvdztn
- u/Glittering-Self-6102
- u/Asad-8294
- u/clonetrooperex
- u/Patrick_Sponge
- u/Sir_Lucius_
- u/Complex_Sir_7206
- u/Kili-st-xy
- u/DangerDuck86
- u/Mysterious_Storm_493
- u/my_name_is_C053
- u/dandrada968279
- u/wannahelpyousell
- u/thatkidanthony
- u/BarenreiterBear
- u/WorkAccount401
- u/0rizza0
- u/KoalasAreKuddly
- u/lionheart724
- u/Crazygrillguy
- u/GustavoShine
- u/JAE512_YouTube
- u/Anon-0011-1001
- u/melancholicmelon1
- u/LordLakja
- u/altux
- u/D4M1
- u/Tilidine
- u/yeetertrader
- u/Demichild1
- u/Bobfahrer1990
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FAQ
r/gentleman — frequently asked questions
Quick facts about this subreddit's size, history, focus, and related communities.
How many subscribers does r/gentleman have?
r/gentleman has approximately 7,131 subscribers as of May 27, 2026.
When was r/gentleman created?
r/gentleman was created on April 5, 2011 (15 years ago).
What is r/gentleman about?
The community is dedicated to exploring and promoting the principles of gentlemanly behavior, focusing on topics such as etiquette, fashion, and lifestyle choices. Members share advice, personal experiences, and discussions that revolve around what it means to embody gentlemanly qualities. The emphasis on politeness and respectful criticism sets this community apart, creatin…
What subreddits are similar to r/gentleman?
Communities similar to r/gentleman include r/tweed.
Who are the most active posters on r/gentleman?
The most frequent posters on r/gentleman include u/realsuitboi, u/dummy_thicc_mistake, u/Alexandre-Ardizzoia.
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