r/flirting
Ask anything about flirting, give us your best pickup lines, tell us how your date went, give flirting advice, or further your…
How to think about r/flirting
The community focuses on all aspects of flirting, offering a space for members to seek advice, share experiences, and exchange pickup lines. It serves as a platform for individuals looking to enhance their flirting skills and navigate the complexities of romantic interactions. The distinct blend of humor and sincerity in discussions fosters a supportive environment for those exploring the art of seduction.
Confidence 4/5
Audience
Participants range from teenagers to young adults, primarily those interested in dating and relationships. The vibe is generally light-hearted and playful, with members seeking both guidance and camaraderie. Many are looking to improve their social skills and confidence in flirting, making the community a mix of novice and experienced individuals sharing their insights and stories.
Posting culture
Content that thrives includes personal anecdotes, humorous pickup lines, and practical advice on flirting techniques. Members appreciate authenticity and creativity, while overly promotional or insincere posts often receive downvotes. The community encourages regular engagement, with a steady flow of questions and responses, fostering an interactive atmosphere where members can learn from each other.
Brand engagement notes
Brands should approach this community with caution, as overt promotion is typically unwelcome. Authentic engagement through sharing relatable content, such as humorous flirting tips or light-hearted discussions about dating experiences, may resonate better. Brands can also consider hosting AMAs or providing value-driven content that aligns with the community's interests, but should avoid hard-selling products or services to maintain credibility and rapport with members.
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What r/flirting talks about
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Top contributors
Who shapes the conversation
The most active and most-upvoted posters and commenters in this community. Useful when planning outreach or studying a community's tastemakers.
Top posters
By post count
- u/[deleted]
- u/Educational-Let-1027
- u/MysticAngel1500
- u/PuzzleheadedTaro2002
- u/Nick09799
- u/curiositykilledmatt
- u/DeanG30
- u/Zestyclose-Ad813
- u/Ok-Appointment3812
- u/Hoopert1lldeath87
- u/Ghost-face4
- u/Yazzy527
- u/asub23
- u/JustMeDodo
- u/Sarid120
- u/G_Singularity
- u/Right_Helicopter9304
- u/BigAdhesiveness5960
- u/MeatIntelligent1921
- u/HaileyQuinnzel
- u/millionpound
- u/Alternative_Cheek_95
- u/Dovakhiin1793
- u/Crow729
- u/Excellent-League-423
- u/Creative-Store
- u/peki_rs_2004
- u/LeaderOfWolves
- u/yuyy24
- u/aimper33
- u/seamusriley22
- u/bronte_pup
- u/Rapunzelsvaghair
- u/FiberSauce
- u/lvrachlv
- u/SnooObjections4345
- u/Ogurasyn
- u/Even-Cow-3264
- u/No-Scar1169
- u/unfilteredfm
- u/Silver-Top-2732
- u/Humble_Holiday_2137
- u/Sneezy_weezel
- u/send_halp_please
- u/KaijOUJaeger
- u/Ok-Artist1056
- u/PsychologicalMany514
- u/Puzzleheaded_Law_458
- u/Beneficial-Pace-
- u/Face_of_satan
- u/ShadowMirror17
- u/Witty_Journalist1574
- u/themightybishop
- u/jetefelicite
- u/jayroewn
- u/Mochikyu
- u/VariationSevere565
- u/FalseVerthandi
- u/Any_Comedian_479
- u/Charlie_redmoon
- u/Temporary-Bluejay695
- u/Ok_Menu8050
- u/Low-Pizza5285
- u/Itsmark909
- u/Foreign_Upstairs5989
- u/MysteriousTedBundy
- u/LeMoon_96
- u/holyjwlz
- u/AcanthisittaEast2145
- u/United_Strike6346
- u/GorilloSoul
- u/hullli24
- u/tuesdayisntfortacos
- u/Ok_Anxiety4808
- u/ImmediateRub9
- u/jenni2fye
- u/brava223
- u/Thin_Regular6442
- u/Aragorn898
- u/Lostinyoursmile
- u/Suitable_Try1555
- u/frauleinbrown
- u/Flarrow10
- u/sarinyon38
- u/fesdukilo12
- u/Sayonarag
- u/Beanbean5
- u/holbalsal_42069
- u/DatingHelp_Needed
- u/lkasjdjgh
- u/spidermantwoooo
- u/user2263726472
- u/EcuMambo
- u/heh68
- u/Conscious_Push_5861
- u/staratwindow
- u/Nice-Road-2859
- u/kibbpop
- u/Designer-Baseball903
- u/Jennine9
By votes
- u/[deleted]
- u/Conscious_Push_5861
- u/curiositykilledmatt
- u/bronte_pup
- u/staratwindow
- u/Sarid120
- u/JustMeDodo
- u/Rapunzelsvaghair
- u/Educational-Let-1027
- u/Nice-Road-2859
- u/DeanG30
- u/Zestyclose-Ad813
- u/MysticAngel1500
- u/kibbpop
- u/FiberSauce
- u/Jennine9
- u/G_Singularity
- u/HaileyQuinnzel
- u/PuzzleheadedTaro2002
- u/Designer-Baseball903
- u/Nick09799
- u/Ok-Appointment3812
- u/MeatIntelligent1921
- u/BigAdhesiveness5960
- u/Hoopert1lldeath87
- u/Gordon_Geko
- u/Trevonhaywood
- u/Ogurasyn
- u/Sharp_Boysenberry269
- u/lvrachlv
- u/Alternative_Cheek_95
- u/Ligma94
- u/Daddyrightnow
- u/No-Scar1169
- u/shy_hot_potato
- u/CuriousLuke17
- u/Right_Helicopter9304
- u/millionpound
- u/SlurpSomeBrogurt
- u/Burner_Occasion_2053
- u/Ok-Artist1056
- u/Sparkly_9
- u/SnooObjections4345
- u/Silver-Top-2732
- u/send_halp_please
- u/Ghost-face4
- u/twofruitynames
- u/Oxi_CLean868
- u/Sneezy_weezel
- u/Witty_Journalist1574
- u/Dovakhiin1793
- u/Somebody_here9
- u/Altruistic-Guide-361
- u/Substantial_Fig_7998
- u/Inevitable_You_1395
- u/Cookiey197
- u/runaway-throwaway99
- u/yaksoku_u56
- u/aaash2
- u/Even-Cow-3264
- u/unfilteredfm
- u/madao_irl
- u/Kuromi1208
- u/raydoee
- u/Subject_Grass9386
- u/Mculegend27
- u/Bracxus
- u/SoupiestMoth
- u/ArmoKaren
- u/Specialist-Event-250
- u/AriaMaryott
- u/PsychologicalMany514
- u/Puzzleheaded_Law_458
- u/Face_of_satan
- u/themightybishop
- u/jetefelicite
- u/Crow729
- u/secretrn89
- u/cyanika7
- u/hughjaaaarts
- u/lalalalaland69
- u/gaon89
- u/sweetindigo1114
- u/throwRAnola_nurse
- u/Hungry_Report_6610
- u/MrVengeance18
- u/Humble_Holiday_2137
- u/Beneficial-Pace-
- u/FalseVerthandi
- u/Any_Comedian_479
- u/Itsmark909
- u/Excellent-League-423
- u/Resident-Volume-9774
- u/Dapper-Judge-5968
- u/mr-vyon
- u/OkPhilosophy2126
- u/K3yb0r3d
- u/witz0425
- u/fishcareforbettas123
- u/93yoongi93
Top commenters
By comment count
- u/[deleted]
- u/RegularJoe62
- u/Charlie_redmoon
- u/Every-Ladder-6101
- u/musicaltoezz
- u/Too-Late-Bro
- u/Expert-Hyena6226
- u/JaStrCoGa
- u/Thin_Instruction8727
- u/Possible-Forever90
- u/Subject_Grass9386
- u/MixtureIcy6763
- u/ManicRuvik
- u/Background-Ball5978
- u/Meh1Meh2
- u/Zestyclose_Fruit_365
- u/lordmoldybutt42
- u/Gordon_Geko
- u/Silverismoney17
- u/Adventurous_Diver740
- u/K3yb0r3d
- u/Mculegend27
- u/ocwys
- u/c0t_A4l
- u/ZanEric
- u/uselessthrowaway5050
- u/Fit_Cable5786
- u/Ghost-face4
- u/Never-a-Boyfriend
- u/fr0sty_bud
- u/EthicalSeduction
- u/deydayy
- u/toptierwinner
- u/the_cool_dude_1
- u/SealMairaDimu
- u/Bheegi_Bila69
- u/CutMonster
- u/NaughtNuts
- u/ArcadiaTepss
- u/ifonlyYRUso
- u/Shamamurai
- u/donut_trouble
- u/c-salama
- u/yassinox12
- u/Eyrks90
- u/sports28491
- u/Harsh_crypto
- u/Ok_Helicopter_7202
- u/vorpod
- u/Cold-Walrus-18
- u/amirhhzadeh
- u/TheGoodExample
- u/kwitesick
- u/bloodhail02
- u/Superb-End6273
- u/The_Government_Knows
- u/Trikdonkey
- u/yourlocalbeertender
- u/Ipride362
- u/Long-Bed6382
- u/diegoenriquesc
- u/jayuserbruiser
- u/empress-of-nothing
- u/surprisemadafaqa
- u/travisjohnn
- u/kurleeburdee
- u/throwMeAwayTa
- u/Devanne752
- u/Gwinamsnumber1fan
- u/ScandelousZbeth
- u/coolfary
- u/MrGalaxyCat640
- u/Just_a_homeworkAcc
- u/roburst2
- u/Docta_Chung
- u/Rogue-Red-
- u/Kitchen_Entertainer9
- u/c_m_17
- u/Admirable_Truck_9809
- u/TwistedIchigo
- u/LA-Improper
- u/DCBrainiac
- u/jaykay303
- u/Sensual_paradox
- u/OCARINAofNARUTO
- u/sykgaiden
- u/its212
- u/BigggD42
- u/killerbeeme
- u/HardinD
- u/Ancient_Zucchini_142
- u/Beam_0
- u/Big-Acanthisitta-914
- u/how2pron
- u/Mintblock_
- u/Illustrious-Sol
- u/Far-Breadfruit-3959
- u/Feisty_Insect_4941
- u/Ladalov
- u/NoRoom4BoomBoom
By votes
- u/[deleted]
- u/RegularJoe62
- u/TheCondor96
- u/Every-Ladder-6101
- u/Expert-Hyena6226
- u/Harsh_crypto
- u/lordmoldybutt42
- u/Reborn912
- u/MixtureIcy6763
- u/Meh1Meh2
- u/K3yb0r3d
- u/EthicalSeduction
- u/empress-of-nothing
- u/Charlie_redmoon
- u/mystreetnameisyaya
- u/JaStrCoGa
- u/musicaltoezz
- u/Far-Breadfruit-3959
- u/Too-Late-Bro
- u/c0t_A4l
- u/MrGalaxyCat640
- u/jmtmustang
- u/Legitimate-Builder82
- u/Ranger-_-
- u/Mintblock_
- u/Adventurous_Diver740
- u/I_hate_everyone_9919
- u/Wulenden
- u/sailordecember
- u/MrVengeance18
- u/Agreeable-Silver-275
- u/Ok_Helicopter_7202
- u/MrFakeySnakey
- u/cherrynhoney
- u/Sensual_paradox
- u/sykgaiden
- u/Possible-Forever90
- u/Ok_Diver4078
- u/Ohnos2
- u/diver_mm
- u/Anxious_Moth
- u/vpen03
- u/TheClitCommander__
- u/sheaduffey
- u/deydayy
- u/Trikdonkey
- u/surprisemadafaqa
- u/Rogue-Red-
- u/Mculegend27
- u/-BuzzedOut-
- u/Pleasant_Quality2651
- u/Ghost-face4
- u/RedArcheos
- u/ImmediateAd8047
- u/vorpod
- u/TheGoodExample
- u/The_Government_Knows
- u/Background-Ball5978
- u/diegoenriquesc
- u/Just_a_homeworkAcc
- u/roburst2
- u/OCARINAofNARUTO
- u/Thin_Instruction8727
- u/Silverismoney17
- u/AdventurousChannel85
- u/ocwys
- u/ZanEric
- u/rumarco
- u/AnonVersal
- u/EvadingTaxes
- u/Master-Range-7669
- u/vijaykrishnavalluri
- u/justwant2behappE
- u/420streets69sheets
- u/Eyrks90
- u/Ipride362
- u/jayuserbruiser
- u/travisjohnn
- u/kurleeburdee
- u/throwMeAwayTa
- u/Beardedeagle22
- u/broken_bottle_66
- u/Magnificent_Diamond
- u/MysticAngel1500
- u/jayroewn
- u/fr0sty_bud
- u/toptierwinner
- u/the_cool_dude_1
- u/SealMairaDimu
- u/Bheegi_Bila69
- u/Cold-Walrus-18
- u/amirhhzadeh
- u/kwitesick
- u/Long-Bed6382
- u/Kitchen_Entertainer9
- u/its212
- u/Zestyclose_Fruit_365
- u/Feisty_Insect_4941
- u/kkeojyeo22
- u/Equivalent-Volume
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FAQ
r/flirting — frequently asked questions
Quick facts about this subreddit's size, history, focus, and related communities.
How many subscribers does r/flirting have?
r/flirting has approximately 28,962 subscribers as of May 27, 2026.
When was r/flirting created?
r/flirting was created on March 12, 2009 (17 years ago).
What is r/flirting about?
The community focuses on all aspects of flirting, offering a space for members to seek advice, share experiences, and exchange pickup lines. It serves as a platform for individuals looking to enhance their flirting skills and navigate the complexities of romantic interactions. The distinct blend of humor and sincerity in discussions fosters a supportive environment for those…
What subreddits are similar to r/flirting?
Communities similar to r/flirting include r/datingadviceformen, r/friendzone, r/datingadvice, r/confidence, r/love.
Who are the most active posters on r/flirting?
The most frequent posters on r/flirting include u/[deleted], u/Educational-Let-1027, u/MysticAngel1500.
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