r/comphet
This subreddit is for lesbians and other wlw. We talk about same-gender attraction and challenge the societal norms that suppress or erase…
How to think about r/comphet
The community focuses on discussions surrounding compulsory heterosexuality, particularly as it affects lesbians and other women who love women (wlw). Members explore the societal pressures that lead individuals to question their sexual orientation and the impact of these norms on their identities. By providing a safe space for sharing experiences and realizations, the community aims to challenge and dismantle heteronormative expectations and foster understanding among its members.
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Audience
Participants are primarily lesbians and wlw, often including those who identify as non-binary or gender non-conforming. The community is inclusive and supportive, attracting individuals seeking validation and understanding of their experiences with compulsory heterosexuality. The vibe is generally empathetic and reflective, with members sharing personal stories, insights, and challenges related to their sexual identities.
Posting culture
Content that thrives includes personal anecdotes, questions about identity, and discussions that challenge societal norms. Members appreciate relatability and authenticity, often engaging with posts that resonate with their own experiences. Downvoting typically occurs for posts perceived as dismissive of the community's core issues or those that promote biphobia or other forms of discrimination. Posting frequency varies, but active engagement is encouraged, especially during discussions of significant topics.
Brand engagement notes
Brands should approach this community with caution, as overt promotion is often met with skepticism or hostility. Authentic engagement is crucial; brands can contribute by sharing resources, supporting LGBTQ+ causes, or facilitating discussions that align with the community's values. Content that educates or raises awareness about compulsory heterosexuality and its effects can resonate well. However, brands should avoid any messaging that feels insincere or exploitative, as members value genuine connection over marketing tactics.
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What r/comphet talks about
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External signals
Where the community looks
Top external domains linked from posts and comments — a quick read on the sources of truth this audience trusts.
Top contributors
Who shapes the conversation
The most active and most-upvoted posters and commenters in this community. Useful when planning outreach or studying a community's tastemakers.
Top posters
By post count
- u/[deleted]
- u/alphaaudrea
- u/auort
- u/lgbt_angel
- u/snorken123
- u/Dramatic_Coyote9159
- u/CloudyHazbin
- u/Illustrious_Speed111
- u/Regular-Ad1758
- u/ramieelle
- u/DoNotTouchMeImScared
- u/Complex-Reporter-896
- u/Few-Income-1592
- u/Ok_Beach9615
- u/No_Flatworm1222
- u/wontcatchmeslippin
- u/TheSapphicWithin
- u/autumn_loving_person
- u/goatonacoffeemug
- u/LikeStandingOnIce
- u/naeviscalling2711
- u/TheDapperest
- u/Apuljoose
- u/MaintenanceLazy
- u/Equivalent-Lie2565
- u/danger_slug
- u/Amanita_moment
- u/jadedheartslowkiss
- u/morninglightt
- u/rql28
- u/krafteasymac
- u/n0rth_wind_
- u/elonmarx161
- u/ExoticPain8659
- u/Aggressive_Bed9898
- u/queerulus
- u/sunniesidedown_
- u/hugefanofsnails
- u/erica21200
- u/bunnybean134340
- u/jupitergetsstupider
- u/Comprehensive_Ad5397
- u/waterbendhiya93
- u/Frikassensee
- u/neutralriot
- u/Lewdghostgirl
- u/c1nnamorollie
- u/yoshisShoe
- u/Additional_Ability99
- u/aaaaatiddies
- u/Kinkybambi24
- u/bumblebeedear
- u/catlady20913
- u/lostgirljess
- u/NoMongoose4723
- u/c1rclethedrain
- u/Brooklyn_2806
- u/ashleypro312
- u/tomato5oup
- u/meowynmar
- u/idelosre
- u/little-miss-lesbian
- u/sivienne
- u/dollszn
- u/Kyri5512
- u/daisyqueenofflowers
- u/klondsbie
- u/Independent-Box5637
- u/Pristine-Poem-8001
- u/11542324
- u/sims4anti
- u/ThisWolverine57989
- u/ckluvr1995
- u/quipiosa
- u/triangledragonmoon
- u/Ok_Ganache4842
- u/akitaaboii
- u/snatchmybread
- u/castawaysyrup
- u/Former_Confusion6150
- u/dawnue
- u/Crafty-Cover-531
- u/Revolutionary-Swim28
- u/Bookbringer
- u/domestic-banana
- u/tessall12
- u/novoamorfan
- u/MyLifeHurtsRightNow
- u/emmyjane03
- u/iamreallygae
- u/MeiShida
- u/page0fcups
- u/idiotwrench
- u/Road-Best
- u/BusTop1930
- u/LittleSausageLinks
- u/maryg2000
- u/Fast-Original-1384
- u/BedSuccessful1284
- u/okboomer888
By votes
- u/[deleted]
- u/TheDapperest
- u/wontcatchmeslippin
- u/alphaaudrea
- u/ramieelle
- u/Apuljoose
- u/Complex-Reporter-896
- u/c1rclethedrain
- u/Dramatic_Coyote9159
- u/DoNotTouchMeImScared
- u/snorken123
- u/CloudyHazbin
- u/Few-Income-1592
- u/auort
- u/Brooklyn_2806
- u/ashleypro312
- u/tomato5oup
- u/Equivalent-Lie2565
- u/Ok_Beach9615
- u/jadedheartslowkiss
- u/autumn_loving_person
- u/Amanita_moment
- u/TheSapphicWithin
- u/idelosre
- u/meowynmar
- u/MaintenanceLazy
- u/danger_slug
- u/little-miss-lesbian
- u/sivienne
- u/dollszn
- u/rql28
- u/daisyqueenofflowers
- u/Kyri5512
- u/naeviscalling2711
- u/klondsbie
- u/Pristine-Poem-8001
- u/Independent-Box5637
- u/LikeStandingOnIce
- u/morninglightt
- u/11542324
- u/quipiosa
- u/sims4anti
- u/n0rth_wind_
- u/Aggressive_Bed9898
- u/ThisWolverine57989
- u/ckluvr1995
- u/elonmarx161
- u/goatonacoffeemug
- u/sunniesidedown_
- u/krafteasymac
- u/Illustrious_Speed111
- u/triangledragonmoon
- u/Ok_Ganache4842
- u/Regular-Ad1758
- u/ExoticPain8659
- u/erica21200
- u/bunnybean134340
- u/akitaaboii
- u/snatchmybread
- u/castawaysyrup
- u/Crafty-Cover-531
- u/dawnue
- u/Revolutionary-Swim28
- u/Bookbringer
- u/Comprehensive_Ad5397
- u/Lewdghostgirl
- u/Former_Confusion6150
- u/domestic-banana
- u/queerulus
- u/novoamorfan
- u/MyLifeHurtsRightNow
- u/hugefanofsnails
- u/tessall12
- u/iamreallygae
- u/MeiShida
- u/emmyjane03
- u/Road-Best
- u/BusTop1930
- u/LittleSausageLinks
- u/BedSuccessful1284
- u/page0fcups
- u/idiotwrench
- u/Fast-Original-1384
- u/okboomer888
- u/No_Flatworm1222
- u/jupitergetsstupider
- u/Frikassensee
- u/maryg2000
- u/faster_pastor
- u/berriesandcreeam
- u/Plenty_Artist777
- u/ImprovementLiving120
- u/monkeywench
- u/Mysterious_111
- u/SpookyBatz
- u/waterbendhiya93
- u/regrettablyalone
- u/Busy-Percentage7732
- u/alex_l0l
- u/PickledSucka
Top commenters
By comment count
- u/[deleted]
- u/TheDapperest
- u/Immediate_Pangolin_4
- u/unsuretysurelysucks
- u/Lydia--charming
- u/Cas174
- u/Adorable-Slice
- u/SnooDoubts103
- u/chngenow
- u/NormanisEm
- u/SparklingCitalopram
- u/Donitaspam
- u/El_11_
- u/starsandcamoflague
- u/Mrs-Salt
- u/losersapphic
- u/duderancherooni
- u/chicknbaconranchmelt
- u/rosariows
- u/greenisthecolour1
- u/handsomecasper
- u/Frogaar
- u/ActualCabbage
- u/DoNotTouchMeImScared
- u/Slight_Fig5187
- u/naeviscalling2711
- u/magiquex
- u/breathinhytes
- u/BiscottiCrunch
- u/sitcomdogs
- u/wontcatchmeslippin
- u/Nikky_thewriter
- u/UnitedNewsofAmerica
- u/emma96sweet
- u/Beautiful-Register45
- u/imjusturdoll
- u/Artistic-Peach7721
- u/GlitteringReception5
- u/PickledSucka
- u/pestopastababy
- u/hookergangbang
- u/annoyed-axolotl
- u/Cold-Season-7072
- u/The_Real_Starbright
- u/probablysleepingg
- u/perdymuch
- u/Aggressive_Bed9898
- u/jvin23
- u/klondsbie
- u/n0rth_wind_
- u/Apuljoose
- u/butttabooo
- u/TidalLion
- u/Lewdghostgirl
- u/faster_pastor
- u/Romanticdreamer3897
- u/BlackGalaxyDiamond
- u/Anxious_Tangerine280
- u/Intrepid_Ad1723
- u/InvestigatorFront349
- u/3chickens1cat
- u/tarantuluv
- u/Distinct-Economist21
- u/Subject-Violinist311
- u/Raven-Clawed23
- u/Dandi_Andii
- u/em-ah
- u/oneconfusedqueer
- u/novoamorfan
- u/peachylix
- u/SirSpooglenogs
- u/Boredom__
- u/mffyhamster
- u/Adam-the-Noble
- u/HolyLung32
- u/Sensitive_Focus_5458
- u/elonmarx161
- u/hippocrit-
- u/i_sing_anyway
- u/Sapphieeeeeeeeeee
- u/theconsofbreathing
- u/VainlyAmiable
- u/gothdrag
- u/Baddie-Bunny
- u/Emilyeagleowl
- u/BeneficialMatter6523
- u/sharpgirl22
- u/See_You_Space_Coyote
- u/sadninetiesgirl
- u/itsyourgirlfinn
- u/dykeofdoom
- u/monkeywench
- u/TiredOfShits
- u/Mattyrightnow
- u/arrivingufo
- u/IamBek
- u/mug023
- u/ashleypro312
- u/Jaymite
- u/colidoscope
By votes
- u/[deleted]
- u/TheDapperest
- u/unsuretysurelysucks
- u/Adorable-Slice
- u/Immediate_Pangolin_4
- u/losersapphic
- u/itsyourgirlfinn
- u/sitcomdogs
- u/Mrs-Salt
- u/naeviscalling2711
- u/midnightmaven101
- u/pestopastababy
- u/duderancherooni
- u/handsomecasper
- u/MisandryFTW
- u/greenisthecolour1
- u/Ashamed-Minute-2721
- u/SaltKnowledge1597
- u/klondsbie
- u/Baddie-Bunny
- u/mug023
- u/PickledSucka
- u/SpicyStrawberryJuice
- u/monkeywench
- u/Distinct-Economist21
- u/2001questions
- u/SparklingCitalopram
- u/Lydia--charming
- u/realCheeka
- u/alimg2020
- u/littlelunacy
- u/starsandcamoflague
- u/probablysleepingg
- u/Synval2436
- u/hookergangbang
- u/Adam-the-Noble
- u/Donitaspam
- u/OrwellianIconoclast
- u/SnooDoubts103
- u/faster_pastor
- u/Frogaar
- u/Raantuva
- u/Zer0DethZ
- u/imjusturdoll
- u/hippocrit-
- u/dykeofdoom
- u/lil_baby_carrot
- u/Romanticdreamer3897
- u/BiscottiCrunch
- u/miss_swifty
- u/NormanisEm
- u/VainlyAmiable
- u/colidoscope
- u/wontcatchmeslippin
- u/EisConfused
- u/Brooklyn_2806
- u/indiehussle_chupac
- u/rosariows
- u/Emilyeagleowl
- u/butchecology
- u/blueeelgrey
- u/Anxious_Tangerine280
- u/Slight_Fig5187
- u/shameless_gay_alt
- u/auort
- u/Unseasonednoodle
- u/i_sing_anyway
- u/fatiguedkyla
- u/snowbebe
- u/Cas174
- u/Different_Claim356
- u/Karatgurk
- u/UnpleasantMule97
- u/Beautiful-Register45
- u/El_11_
- u/fictionfactories
- u/Subject-Violinist311
- u/DoNotTouchMeImScared
- u/inziy
- u/Astro-gothic-punk
- u/Interesting_Piece138
- u/Ok_Break_1746
- u/Inside-Style-4861
- u/breathinhytes
- u/minnierhett
- u/Violet_Atlas
- u/Opening-Thought-5736
- u/emma96sweet
- u/Artistic-Peach7721
- u/uhhhokaykara
- u/GlitteringReception5
- u/Dramatic_Coyote9159
- u/BlackGalaxyDiamond
- u/novoamorfan
- u/ActualCabbage
- u/oneironautin93
- u/Nikky_thewriter
- u/grklpian
- u/chngenow
- u/alfaragh____
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FAQ
r/comphet — frequently asked questions
Quick facts about this subreddit's size, history, focus, and related communities.
How many subscribers does r/comphet have?
r/comphet has approximately 15,571 subscribers as of May 27, 2026.
When was r/comphet created?
r/comphet was created on March 9, 2019 (7 years ago).
What is r/comphet about?
The community focuses on discussions surrounding compulsory heterosexuality, particularly as it affects lesbians and other women who love women (wlw). Members explore the societal pressures that lead individuals to question their sexual orientation and the impact of these norms on their identities. By providing a safe space for sharing experiences and realizations, the commu…
What subreddits are similar to r/comphet?
Communities similar to r/comphet include r/latebloomerlesbians, r/wlw, r/lesbiangang, r/lesbianfashionadvice, r/butchlesbians.
Who are the most active posters on r/comphet?
The most frequent posters on r/comphet include u/[deleted], u/alphaaudrea, u/auort.
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