r/askmenrelationships
Relationship advice for dating, romantic, platonic, marital, school, work, family, or even neighborly relationships. Ask men for their…
How to think about r/askmenrelationships
This community focuses on providing relationship advice specifically from a male perspective, covering a wide range of topics including dating, family dynamics, and workplace interactions. Members seek to share experiences and insights, making it distinct for its emphasis on male viewpoints in discussions about relationships. The community fosters an environment where men can openly ask questions and receive feedback from peers, creating a supportive atmosphere for personal growth and understanding.
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Audience
Participants are primarily men, often in their late teens to mid-thirties, who are looking for advice or support regarding various relationship issues. The vibe is generally constructive, with members valuing honesty and practical solutions. Many engage with the intent to learn from others' experiences or to gain different perspectives on their own situations, making it a space for open dialogue and mutual support.
Posting culture
Content that thrives includes personal anecdotes, specific questions about relationship dilemmas, and requests for advice on navigating complex social situations. Posts that are vague or overly general tend to receive less engagement and may be downvoted. The community encourages thoughtful responses, and members are expected to contribute meaningfully. Posting frequency is moderate, with active discussions often emerging around common relationship challenges.
Brand engagement notes
Brands should approach this community with caution, as overt promotion is often met with skepticism. Authentic engagement is key; brands can contribute by sharing valuable insights or resources related to relationship advice without appearing self-serving. Content that resonates includes educational articles, relatable scenarios, or tools that genuinely assist in relationship management. Collaborating with trusted voices within the community can also enhance credibility and acceptance.
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What r/askmenrelationships talks about
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Top contributors
Who shapes the conversation
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Top posters
By post count
- u/[deleted]
- u/No_Sea6111
- u/idrinkseoulmilk
- u/RemarkableUse7137
- u/starsapphire16
- u/No-Syllabub-3386
- u/cass2769
- u/voltercroft04
- u/ZealousidealSky6834
- u/sadgf4ulol
- u/Paltry_Poetaster
- u/unfairpizzaaa021
- u/onigiri2233
- u/falzeteeth
- u/RevenueImaginary1769
- u/Anxious_Ambition8439
- u/Patient-Hamster-6206
- u/catmom268
- u/Dr_Garp
- u/Careful-Green1401
- u/IndividualVersion844
- u/HIBunbun
- u/ineedhelpplslol123
- u/Classic_Coast_6263
- u/Summer-time11
- u/Outrageous-Cloud-554
- u/Hairy-Cartoonist8784
- u/Training-Movie166
- u/Exotic_Wolverine_698
- u/Mens_mental_health
- u/Useful_Database5138
- u/seabreeeze
- u/spacecadet_98
- u/chimmy_bunz
- u/NotHere4U2Day
- u/brendasword
- u/Significant_Star1218
- u/CashireKitty
- u/SunsetsMakeMeHappy
- u/imapurpleman
- u/everyday_ragamuffin
- u/CyberWarrior2099
- u/mixtape10
- u/Pinksaucesphagetti
- u/Easy_Place_8634
- u/Temporary_Image_4895
- u/milfsie
- u/Global-Wealth-5470
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- u/KeyAnarchy
- u/AreYouTyson
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- u/Embarrassed_Guest_77
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- u/belittledsarcasm
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- u/Broke_CriminalLawyer
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- u/bitxh5678
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- u/Adepocalypse69
- u/million_mills
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- u/lovemeplsD
- u/INFPbasically
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- u/izzelle1
- u/tinytatofish
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- u/ScientistinRednkland
- u/Pumpkin_698
- u/Dizzy_Personality588
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- u/ehegalis
- u/New_Milk2327
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- u/DCnative2020
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- u/SweetPeaAsian
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- u/[deleted]
- u/No_Sea6111
- u/cass2769
- u/unfairpizzaaa021
- u/starsapphire16
- u/onigiri2233
- u/Odd_Carrot4205
- u/idrinkseoulmilk
- u/buttercroissant7
- u/falzeteeth
- u/No-Syllabub-3386
- u/Tasty_Recording8011
- u/belittledsarcasm
- u/Shanonymous138
- u/ZealousidealSky6834
- u/sadgf4ulol
- u/ThunderBr0ther
- u/thrillconfessions
- u/K1tt3n_Fur
- u/ineedhelpplslol123
- u/Classic_Coast_6263
- u/Xenocerberus
- u/Broke_CriminalLawyer
- u/Hairy-Cartoonist8784
- u/Useful_Database5138
- u/HIBunbun
- u/Comprehensive-Lie417
- u/Odd_Fix_4563
- u/bluecoldwater22
- u/voltercroft04
- u/RevenueImaginary1769
- u/Mens_mental_health
- u/brendasword
- u/Youdontknow94
- u/bitxh5678
- u/No-Revolution-3159
- u/million_mills
- u/itanewdayshinebright
- u/lovemeplsD
- u/INFPbasically
- u/Ok-Parsley2215
- u/izzelle1
- u/ScientistinRednkland
- u/Key-Syrup3274
- u/Outrageous-Cloud-554
- u/Significant_Star1218
- u/catmom268
- u/Paltry_Poetaster
- u/Dr_Garp
- u/RemarkableUse7137
- u/Adepocalypse69
- u/tinytatofish
- u/Pumpkin_698
- u/Dizzy_Personality588
- u/ehegalis
- u/Summer-time11
- u/New_Milk2327
- u/BellawerhavUbeenloca
- u/Perfectlyhonesty
- u/thisismylife190
- u/Exotic_Wolverine_698
- u/spacecadet_98
- u/chimmy_bunz
- u/Anxious_Ambition8439
- u/Careful-Green1401
- u/Easy_Place_8634
- u/Upbeat-Armadillo590
- u/Icy_Formal1384
- u/purrkichi
- u/TanchikZ
- u/mimurz
- u/Nerve_Primary
- u/SweetPeaAsian
- u/qqwweerrtty829
- u/Holiday_Mountain5311
- u/DanceEven2593
- u/Help_me_plz_xox
- u/Low-Jaded
- u/Ilovesheebie
- u/decentpragmatist
- u/International_Tea391
- u/thrwawayy11112
- u/HGracieP
- u/tloundes202
- u/Serious_Hold_1847
- u/Training-Movie166
- u/notsoarmoured
- u/seabreeeze
- u/Spiritbutterfly1
- u/NotHere4U2Day
- u/everyday_ragamuffin
- u/DCnative2020
- u/Flyhigh-2020
- u/RanmaRanmaRanma
- u/shadylady6989
- u/piink_clouds
- u/Regular_Draw2276
- u/texlegal52
- u/Lostas_Canadienne
- u/following_my_mood
Top commenters
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- u/SumhDhood
- u/[deleted]
- u/Cnnlgns
- u/Gentleman_Argentum
- u/AllKindsOfCritters
- u/MisterBroda
- u/bvc1983
- u/cloneketsuji
- u/SubjectsNotObjects
- u/RockysTurtle
- u/friendly_raccoon123
- u/noplaceinmind
- u/Snowielady
- u/OJay23
- u/jghmf
- u/jositosway
- u/Capital_Mud_8490
- u/Asspieburgers
- u/izzelle1
- u/akihonj
- u/RancidHummus
- u/Young_Hxppxe
- u/THExBEARxJEW
- u/K_N0RRIS
- u/Perfectlyhonesty
- u/Dr_Garp
- u/FenDy64
- u/TuckerTheCuckFucker
- u/Good_Adeptness7325
- u/ChaosOpen
- u/PeedOnMyRugMan
- u/sjrsimac
- u/TwinSong
- u/c0ntr0ll3dsubstance
- u/Traditional_Pin6328
- u/NotHere4U2Day
- u/HeavyMetalLyrics
- u/cosmicoso
- u/IllNameThisAccLater
- u/HumbleSeaweed1382
- u/Upstairs_Meringue_18
- u/Nabugu
- u/Ok-Grand-1882
- u/Positive-Ad-1859
- u/Such_Temporary_9597
- u/cass2769
- u/RevolutionaryMoose92
- u/WarmSquare8969
- u/SaltyPringles97
- u/SteezMeOut
- u/Mad_Cowboy_64
- u/Brilliant_Flounder59
- u/Filthy_Kate
- u/petdance
- u/w_a_worthy_coconut
- u/Grand_Ad5429
- u/jess3339
- u/Paltry_Poetaster
- u/Throwaway23049123
- u/flora-lai
- u/curly_crazy_curious
- u/stunninsaturn
- u/Oceansoul3
- u/K1tt3n_Fur
- u/squeezycakes19
- u/ionixo
- u/AffectionatePut4540
- u/DCnative2020
- u/rumcapital23
- u/Exoticrobot22
- u/molossus99
- u/UKTech-Dave
- u/IHateAPA
- u/WordsinaWhisper
- u/Made2QuestionU
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- u/greenifuckation
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- u/Greedy-Permission-22
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- u/Maternityclothes456
- u/xxprincesskittenxo
- u/tinytatofish
- u/Edokwin
- u/CompleteSpecialist76
- u/No_Sea6111
- u/Just-a-Pea
- u/DannyDreaddit
- u/Elisabeth-B
- u/Eastcoasthairstylist
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- u/michelenedawn
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- u/XesLanaLear
- u/brokencrown00
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- u/[deleted]
- u/SumhDhood
- u/noplaceinmind
- u/MisterBroda
- u/Cnnlgns
- u/AllKindsOfCritters
- u/cloneketsuji
- u/OJay23
- u/THExBEARxJEW
- u/bvc1983
- u/Gentleman_Argentum
- u/FenDy64
- u/RockysTurtle
- u/jositosway
- u/PeedOnMyRugMan
- u/TuckerTheCuckFucker
- u/c0ntr0ll3dsubstance
- u/jghmf
- u/Capital_Mud_8490
- u/RancidHummus
- u/TwinSong
- u/SubjectsNotObjects
- u/Dr_Garp
- u/Snowielady
- u/Young_Hxppxe
- u/friendly_raccoon123
- u/LeadPipePromoter
- u/JonesyCast
- u/Ok-Grand-1882
- u/Mindless_Seesaw_2518
- u/akihonj
- u/RevolutionaryMoose92
- u/cosmicoso
- u/IllNameThisAccLater
- u/DannyDreaddit
- u/SaltyPringles97
- u/Nabugu
- u/Just-a-Pea
- u/XesLanaLear
- u/ColdCamel7
- u/sjrsimac
- u/izzelle1
- u/w_a_worthy_coconut
- u/HeavyMetalLyrics
- u/Perfectlyhonesty
- u/Easy-Dimension-1844
- u/Good_Adeptness7325
- u/brokencrown00
- u/Asspieburgers
- u/jimtastic89
- u/cass2769
- u/SteezMeOut
- u/Upstairs_Meringue_18
- u/K_N0RRIS
- u/IHateAPA
- u/Greedy-Permission-22
- u/CompleteSpecialist76
- u/Elisabeth-B
- u/KindlyFace918
- u/Mstr_Dad
- u/RemarkableUse7137
- u/reewa07
- u/SweetPeaAsian
- u/petdance
- u/NotHere4U2Day
- u/xxprincesskittenxo
- u/Eastcoasthairstylist
- u/ChaosOpen
- u/Icy_Formal1384
- u/KingRobertBeratheon
- u/lowerbackpain2208
- u/no_username_1790
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- u/spiraldinosaur
- u/Chill_SD1974
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- u/Clean-Ad4235
- u/Skippitini
- u/Mad_Cowboy_64
- u/Traditional_Pin6328
- u/Grand_Ad5429
- u/Paltry_Poetaster
- u/Throwaway23049123
- u/HumbleSeaweed1382
- u/tinytatofish
- u/Positive-Ad-1859
- u/Such_Temporary_9597
- u/StructureNo3388
- u/aSyntacticParadigm
- u/johndavisjr7
- u/Glad_Adhesiveness189
- u/RockinIrish
- u/localwarlord90
- u/wondering-soul
- u/Complicated_Animal
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- u/starsapphire16
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FAQ
r/askmenrelationships — frequently asked questions
Quick facts about this subreddit's size, history, focus, and related communities.
How many subscribers does r/askmenrelationships have?
r/askmenrelationships has approximately 24,420 subscribers as of May 27, 2026.
When was r/askmenrelationships created?
r/askmenrelationships was created on May 31, 2013 (13 years ago).
What is r/askmenrelationships about?
This community focuses on providing relationship advice specifically from a male perspective, covering a wide range of topics including dating, family dynamics, and workplace interactions. Members seek to share experiences and insights, making it distinct for its emphasis on male viewpoints in discussions about relationships. The community fosters an environment where men ca…
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Who are the most active posters on r/askmenrelationships?
The most frequent posters on r/askmenrelationships include u/[deleted], u/No_Sea6111, u/idrinkseoulmilk.
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